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Healing – Mind, Body, and Spirit

2020-10-01T09:28:00-04:00October 1st, 2020|

In September we talked about comfort zones and growth. To be able to move from surviving to thriving, we have to be open to stretching ourselves, growing in new ways, and healing ourselves. Did you know that the word “heal” comes from the word “whole” which is why it is important to consider your whole self. For me, looking at healing my mind, body, and spirit has been critical. Many times, we try to suppress unpleasant things in our minds. My therapist says, “Your mind may forget, but your body always remembers.” This is so true. This suppressing not only affects our bodies but also our spirits. Suppressing emotional and mental pain leads to depression and anxiety which, in turn, can lead to other issues such as increased medical problems as well as substance abuse. To move through healthy change, we must embrace all of who we are and take slow but steady healing steps.

Stepping Out of Your Comfort Zone

2020-09-15T09:44:00-04:00September 15th, 2020|

At the beginning of the month we talked about how survivors of sexual abuse often create a comfort zone for themselves. Two different images were offered - that of wrapping yourself up with insulation like a blanket or forming a protective wall. It may also be a comfy nest that you don’t really want to leave, even when it’s time.

Let’s explore what a comfort zone might look like for you.

Comfort Zone and Growth

2020-08-31T18:12:04-04:00August 31st, 2020|

As sexual abuse survivors, we have had to create safety for ourselves. We experienced the unthinkable and now feeling vulnerable and/or out of control can be frightening and uncomfortable. For me, there were a number of layers I wrapped myself up to feel safe and secure.

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